The TruLS Journal

Stories, guides and honest advice for couples and singles in the lifestyle, from first steps to life in the community.

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Lifestyle etiquette: house parties, clubs and meet & greets

The unwritten rules of lifestyle events, from your first meet & greet to a club night or a private house party. How to be the guest everyone hopes to see again.

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Getting started

Unicorns, bulls, throuples: what the labels mean

A friendly guide to the words the lifestyle community uses for couples, singles, throuples, quads, unicorns and bulls, and how they help you find the right people.

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Our story

Why we built TruLS

Lifestyle sites have been built to keep you scrolling and paying. TruLS was built to help you find your people, and to give the community a home worth coming back to.

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Getting started

New to the lifestyle? A first-timer's guide

Curious about swinging or ethical non-monogamy? How to talk it through, set boundaries together, and take a first step that feels right for you both.

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