Now opening area by area
The private community for the lifestyle.
Meet couples and singles near you, find parties and club nights, join groups for everything from travel to memes, and chat live. One members-only home for adults 18+.
Is TruLS open near you?- Members only
- 18+ only
- You choose who sees what
Good evening, Alex & Sam
Decatur, Illinois
Matches for you
Jess & Marco
Springfield · ~38 mi
Fits both waysTaylor
Champaign · ~45 mi
Fits both waysSat · 8:00 PM
Meet & Greet at the lounge
Central Illinois Lounge
12 chatting now
Everything the lifestyle needs, in one private place
Meet couples and singles near you
Matches based on what you're each looking for, sorted by distance from your city.
Parties, clubs and events
Meet & greets, house parties and club nights near you, with a clear note on whether play is allowed.
Live chat rooms
Capped at 100 people, so conversations stay personal.
Groups for everything
Start or join groups for any interest, from lifestyle humor and memes to travel and local meetups.
Your feed
Share photos and updates with members near you, your friends or the people who follow you.
Photos you control
Group your photos into albums and choose who can see each one.
Your privacy comes first
Private by design
Members only
Profiles, photos and posts are only visible to signed-in members.
18+ only
Every member confirms their age when they join.
You choose who sees what
Set who sees each post and each photo album.
Verified clubs
Clubs get a Verified badge once TruLS confirms who runs them.
Report and block
Report or block anyone, any time.
City-level location only
We only know your city, never your exact location.
How joining works
- 1
Pick your state
If TruLS is open there, you can join right away. If not, join the waitlist and we'll email you when it opens.
- 2
Confirm you're 18+
Your birth date is only used to check your age. It isn't kept on your profile.
- 3
Set up your profile
Add your city and what you're looking for. Choose who sees what.
Is TruLS open near you?
We're opening area by area, so there are people to meet near you from day one. Pick your state when you sign up. If we're open there, you can join right away. If not, leave your email and we'll let you know when we open near you.
Already a member? Log in
Have an invite code? You can enter it on the sign-up page.
Podcasters and event hosts: request access
Questions people ask first
Who can see my profile?
Only signed-in members. People without an account can't see profiles, photos or posts.
Is it discreet?
Yes. You choose a display name, and you choose who sees each photo album. We only know your city, never your exact location.
Is it for couples or singles?
Both. Couples can share one account or link two, and singles are welcome.
Is everyone welcome?
Yes. TruLS welcomes everyone in the lifestyle: straight, bi, gay, trans and nonbinary members, couples and singles. Harassing anyone over their orientation or gender breaks our Community Rules.
Is it just for meeting people?
No. Meeting people is a big part of it, but TruLS is a whole community. Share photos and updates, start or join groups for anything from lifestyle humor and memes to travel, chat live in rooms, and find clubs and events near you.
Is TruLS free?
Yes, while we grow. An optional premium membership is coming soon. It pays for running TruLS and for the moderation that keeps every member safe.