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The TruLS Poly Style Test

What's your poly style?

Rate real situations, from holiday dinners with metamours to primary partners and living on your own, and see how you match 8 ways of doing polyamory. Every one of them is a valid way to love. Then compare with your partners.

1Who's taking the test?
2How long have you been exploring polyamory or ENM?

A year or more in? You'll also get questions about things you've actually done.

3Quick or full?
  • Go with your gut. Seven circles run from strongly disagree to strongly agree; the middle one means not sure.
  • Answer for who you are now, not who you think you should be.
  • Your answers stay on this device. Nothing is saved to your account.
about 3 min